Safeboot: He probably really does mean UDLP -- Unified DLP extensions that promises to unify host and network DLP policies and make them both manageable on a DLP Manage device, which (while swell in theory) in reality I never got to work, the McAfee Quickstart people wouldn't touch it unless you gave them an 11 foot "best effort" pole and when I called NDLP support seeking for some help on the last bit of the UDLP configuration in the ePO shim, and they acted like I had two heads for wanting to do the UDLP that I was sold. Not that I'm bitter, mind you. :-)
Much wailing and gnashing of teeth later... we decided to go with not doing unified since different internal parts of McAfee really couldn't agree on whether it's supported or a right way to go forward, and apparently after 9.2, the look of unified DLP will be rather different and possibly move entirely to ePO management.
I too experienced a tremendous PITA trying to chase down the UDLP extension package.
I may have ended up rattling either my sales engineer and/or support until someone provided me the extension on some ftp site. The filename I have here is an 86MB package UnifiedDLPExtension92_HF5.zip and it seems I had gotten it on 3/16/2012 if that helps narrow the search any.
I threw a ceremonial 3 minutes and trying to find it on the mcafee product download page, and I couldn't find it quickly despite my very valid grant number. I do explicitly remember finding it being one of the many things in my DLP deployment that were quite unenjoyable.