This probably should have been posted in ePO. I'm not sure how to move it.
You can stop it by, stopping the 3 ePO services (application, event and server)
This will terminate it and then you can try to run a update again, make sure the PC can ping the ePO server.
And open the mcafee monitor and select (collect and send props) to see if the agent does go back to your ePO
Moved to ePO area for housekeeping. You can always move, edit, or delete your original post from the Actions widget to the right until there are replies to your message. After someone has replied, this functionality is reserverd for moderators.
Worked! Thank you